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It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman. 

 

Young man! Being single is horrible – abandoned, empty, forlorn, frustrating, lonely, painful, pitiful, purposeless, sad, and troublesome! But it is worse to be married to an opinionated woman that gets upset with you! Learn this lesson well! Believe it! Save yourself! Marrying the wrong woman is hell compared to the heaven of being single!

 

Young man! Solomon knew what he wrote! He had 700 wives and 300 concubines (unofficial wives). The soul pain of a contentious and angry wife for one day can cure a man of desiring marriage! Solomon had 1000. God inspired him to give you a warning: do not marry an opinionated woman. Marriage can be more painful that you can imagine.

 

Young man! Do you like camping … far out in the woods … all by yourself? If you do not, that is fine! Most men would dread such a lonely thing. But remember, such camping is better than living in a fine home with all the creature comforts, if the woman in that house with you is a critical, negative, overbearing, tense, or easily irritated woman.

 

What is a contentious woman? One with a disposition to contend – who argues, criticizes, disagrees, opposes, quarrels, or questions you. She is full of questions, reminders, and suggestions – all to help you, of course! Rather than doting on you, she will be nagging you; rather than sweetly agreeing, she will be questioning and suggesting alternatives.

 

What is an angry woman? One who cannot rule her spirit, and is easily angered, dissatisfied, irritated, negative, resentful, or upset. She can find something negative about the best event, and she frets and talks most about that. She is never satisfied. She is never content, seldom your sweet lover, but always irritated and stressed about something.

 

Young man! These odious – hateful and despicable – women will deceive you (30:21-23). They will lure you into marriage, and then it is too late. Remember the rule of ten! Any hint of overbearing before marriage will be ten times worse afterward. Guaranteed! Test her! Ask her to do something she dislikes. If you even smell irritation or detect one fallen facial muscle, run for the woods! Be single for life rather than married to her!

 

There are many agreeable, cheerful, gracious, submissive, sweet, and reverent women. They can make you feel like a king in seconds, and marriage to them is royal bliss. They are warm, kind, charming, and pleasant. They have no harsh or rough edges. Reject any woman that is even slightly critical, moody, opinionated, or questioning. She does not deserve a husband, ever! You do not deserve such pain! You deserve a real woman!

 

The odious woman cannot smell her own stench. She thinks she is helpful by prodding, asking questions, stressing over details, giving reminders, expecting perfection, or showing dislike of a choice. If you were to ask her, she would say she is a good woman and wife. If you were to ask her mother, she would praise her as well (Ezek 16:44). But all others must hold their noses at the smell neither husband can hide (27:15-16).

 

Young man! Your future is at stake! Learn the warnings in these proverbs about odious women. Believe them! Fear the pain of marriage to such a creature! Be prudent! Test a prospect, and watch her reaction closely. Is her mother a charming, desirable, and gracious woman, or not? Ask married men their opinions, for their sense of smell is finely tuned. Do not rush to marriage! Never take a chance with a fifty-year fate!

 

Christian woman! Get rid of your opinions, for your desires are to be your husbands (Gen 3:16). Learn and maximize graciousness, and you will always be loved (11:16). Godly women do not contend with their husbands; they obey, submit, and reverence them (Eph 5:22-24,33; Titus 2:3-5). Godly women are not irritable or negative (31:26; I Pet 3:3-4).

Dont be angry...

The churning of milk bringeth forth butter, and the wringing of the nose bringeth forth blood: so the forcing of wrath bringeth forth strife.

 

 The God-hating professor taunted the philosophy class, "No one in here can prove even one statement of the Bible to be absolutely true!" A sober young man spoke from the back of the room, "I can." The professor retorted, "Well, here's your opportunity!" The young man approached the teacher, took the teacher's nose in his hand, and twisted it hard. The blood ran freely, and the young man quoted this proverb! Give God the glory!

 The blessed Creator put laws in His creation and revealed them to men. If the cream from milk is agitated in a churn, it will separate into butter and butter milk. The process has been known from the beginning of the world, and it is as sure and certain as gravity. Poor conditions may make it take longer, but butter will definitely result from churning milk.

 The blood vessels in the nose are weak and near the surface. If the nose is hit or twisted hard, these vessels will break and blood will flow from the nose. Nosebleeds are very common, and a simple wringing of the nose is enough to cause this bleeding. As sure and certain as gravity, a twisting of the nose will rupture blood vessels and bring forth blood.

 With the same certainty, acting in wrath to force or defend your cause will create strife. Wrath is anger, and strife is fighting and division. How you deal with anger is whether or not you cause conflict and trouble. "A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife" (15:18). Angry strife is devilish and from hell; it leads to confusion and every evil work; wise men are peacemakers instead (James 3:13-18)!

 Everyone gets angry (Mark 3:5), but wise men defer anger and pass over the offences of others (19:11). Wise men do not let anger cause them to sin, and they get rid of it as soon as possible (Eph 4:26). Wise men are slow to wrath (14:17,29; Jas 1:19). They rule their spirits and do not allow the passion of anger to control them (16:32). They are great men!

 Angry men are dangerous fools. They always have strife. Avoid them! If you associate with angry men, you will learn their sinful ways and get involved in fighting and trouble (22:24; 29:22). It is better to choose friends from faithful and perfect men (Ps 101:6).

 Anger is the mark of a fool (Eccl 7:9). Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous (27:4). They both lead to strife. Choose to be offended, or even defrauded, rather than get angry (I Cor 6:7). You need not defend yourself; the Lord will defend you (Rom 12:19-21).

A part of Prime Minister Laisenia Qarase's Prayer.

Prime minister’s prayer
Here is an excerpt of Prime Minister Laisenia Qarase’s prayer and confession.
“As prime minister of Fiji, I am conscious of the great responsibilities you have placed on my shoulders to look after your sons and daughters and to love them as you have loved me; to also be a wise steward of all the resources you have given to this nation.
“Before I can ask forgiveness of others, I first confess my sins and weaknesses before you.
“Father in heaven, I stand before you now, not as prime minister of this nation, but as Laisenia Qarase, humbly seeking your forgiveness for my household and for me personally. Human as we are, we have many times taken our focus away from you as our only true God. We have been guilty of relying on our own capabilities, our own resources and our own human thoughts.
“We realize that man’s wisdom is foolishness to you and that our thoughts are not your thoughts and our ways are not your ways, for your thoughts and your ways are far above ours.
“I ask Father for your forgiveness. Please help us to look to you and to rely on you at all times so that in whatever we do and in whatever we say, we are able to honor and to glorify your great name. Amen.
“I now seek the forgiveness of the churches in our country.
“I know that the churches form the body of Christ, and their work is kingdom work; and for their fine work, this government is most grateful. But this does not exonerate government from its lack of commitment in helping out with kingdom work in our country.
“Government has rationalized this situation by saying that there are just not enough resources in the country to take care of all important work that needs to be done. Although this may sound plausible, we have in the process failed to realize that all resources come from God in the first place and that resources need to be channeled for kingdom work.
“In the policy framework of government, we have not done enough to seek divine guidance from the spiritual leaders of our community. We are happy to see the coming together of the Fiji Council of Churches and the Assembly of Christian Churches in Fiji, as the body of Christ.
“We however lack the will to seek out the creative thoughts of God through the churches. We seek your forgiveness and ask that we continue to build on the good work achieved so far.”

Love your neighbour as you love yourself..

I was reading through some blog comments on WFC, and i was drawn to the fact that, strife still arises even if people beleive in the same cause. The character assasination that erupted within the blogers, like that occasional saying "sa lai wele o ira na tekivuna na ka qo...sa ra mai veidresuqanibulu wale o ira na kena vo.."

We must learn to love.. and there is no other way to go about it. Invite the Lord Jesus into your life, Not only you will love your fellow human being, but you will posses respect, that even when there is obvious flaws in a person or a system of things, you will not bow low to point finger at the person but rather enlighten the one to see from your perspective.

Respect demands Respect. Respect is borne out of Love, Love is of God, trough Jesus.. you can have that today.... just say the prayer below...

Dear God,
Thank you for loving me, thank you that because of your Love, Jesus died for me and rose again. I confess my wrong doings. I invite Lord Jesus into my heart, to make home, and infiltrate me with Love, so that i may have respect. Thank you for hearing my prayer. I am loved and i will Love.In Jesus name I pray.
Amen

Dear God...

Almighty God, our Heavenly Father, thou art created us, ordained our Land. You are our God, you created us, you made the mountains, you cover them with green, you make ways for the rivers and you fill our oceans. You sustain us. Thou the devil has very much wreck havoc in our situation, we know and believe that you are still in control. You loved us oh Lord, still you give us the right of choice. Lord we confess of our wrong choices, Lord lead us now. Renew within our hearts a yearning for you, to turn back to you, inviting your spirit into us oh Lord. You are our only hope, as individual, and as our nation. Lord remove selfishness, remove hatred, racism from our Land. Instill Love, kindness and respect. Thank you Jesus. In your name we pray. Amen.

We need healing in our Land!

"If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land"

Conditions of healing of our Land.

Humility
Prayer
Repentance

We are in need of these in Fiji. What is done is done, no hatred, no finger pointing will change things as they are. What has happened has happened. Can we make the situation lighter or any better by sitting down, sulking, bitter and blamy?? We only mite make things worse.."

We must see the good that is in us as individuals, let us be constructive and not be so destructive. Watch for the words we use on our fellow human beings. Didn't God created us all equally...? Does it only rain on those who acknowledge him... Was the cross easy for Christ...??
Before we continue, just remember, on this blog we are all equal.. all loved to the same token that God's best.. Jesus Christ himself, was bruised, humiliated, flogged and crucified..

You are welcome to comment and if you want an item put up in regards to our collective need for helping our fiji, dont hesitate to send it to (prayers.4fiji at gmail.com)